Hi everyone,
Im just wondering what everyones views on threesomes are?
Personally I love them... it so much fun when it all goes well. I have had a few MMF experiences and managed to cross a few things of my list of things to try before you die ;)
On the other hand as you are dealing with two other people the dynamics can get complicated... as with most things good comunication is vital.
i personally have never had a real threesome, but if /when i do have one i think i would need for it to be with two 'strangers' i dont think that i could do it with my partner and then someone else.
I agree with you on that. My partner and me are together for almost 3 yrs now. We discussed this recently but I wont be doing the 3some with if... it has to be strangers I dont know.... It would be weird with him.... dunno.... never thought about it.
Permalink Reply by ajd on December 5, 2008 at 7:59pm
I've always found threesome hot and great when you are the two in couple and other
other way around; me with a couple?
have to be trusting alot , decent guys, and not being downgraded:
then I am a top mostly- so could be fun fantasy
You need to have the right group dynamics, otherwise it just gets awkward. Especially if it's just an excuse for two of the people to get together, then the third one just feels left out. It's always better to be the guest star lol. Or if in a relationship to find someone together rather than have one partner decide to bring another in.
Leon - thats an interesting thought. What is it about a threesome with your partner that would make you uncomfortable?
Thomas - yes the dynamics are all important, even as a guest star - you don't want to be the guest of only one of the pair... as you said the couple need to be doing it together. It gets horribly awkward otherwise.
On the other hand when it does work out its soooo good :D
hm i think its just that i wouldfeel uncomfortable being accomodating to someone new without being overly accomodating to make my partner uncomfortable i duess it would depend on who i was with at the times opinions of threesomes maybe im just old fashioned lol
Leon - yes... it can be tricky finding the right balance... these things are best approached with caution.
There is nothing wrong with being old fashioned!
Permalink Reply by Levi on August 24, 2008 at 8:32am
I dont know if id ever get my partner in on a threesome (thats if i had a bf)...
I think the only way for it to work would be to have the 'guest' in the middle of the two partners... that way both bfs are enjoying it and dont feel left out/jealous... they are both doing a guest together so to speak... yes for me personally, awkward much.
Ive never had a 3some, but agree that itd have to be with strangers.
hmm...
The joys of being young and nieve... and slightly new to this all.
Permalink Reply by jase on October 24, 2008 at 11:27pm
hi dude as a matter of fact my boyfriend and i are having a threesome 2nite it's my third time and my boi's second they are so hot and heavy
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