why straight n butch guys always pic on small gay guys ????

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Permalink Reply by Troy on November 22, 2009 at 4:55pm

Well London,
"why straight n butch guys always pic on small gay guys???? I feel that question stereotypes heterosexual males as well as men who are perceived as masculine. I'm assuming you'd agree that not all the men you'd perceive as masculine go after Gay guys of smaller stature. However being Gay, and often times being seen as effeminate, and having attended middle and high school, I can see where your coming from. I came out as a freshmen in high school and I'd say I was constantly harassed. I'd also say that the overwhelming majority of my harassers were Straight guys. And I wasn't perceived as small, I was close to six feet tall and weighed about 260. In America I think a lot of it is cultural. I feel like in our culture a man's behavior and appearance are expected to fall into a certain spectrum. And when people feel that your outside that a lot of them feel that your less then them and not worthy of respect.

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Permalink Reply by london85 on December 5, 2009 at 10:09am

ure right im also nt that short is jst that ive seen it happening a lot i went out with my boyfriend hs friends started pointing fingers @ me dowin funny things .askin what stupid questions i was so angry i told him to take me home thenx for replaying bt here in SA is a different thing either ure nt light enough nt tall enough there's always something that the guys here will talk about

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