HOMOSEXUALITY??

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Permalink Reply by Jayson on February 23, 2009 at 6:57am

like u I grew up str8 i had all the "normal" toys boys were meant to have ya no like GI Joe and toy cars and construction sets and the like. I truly believe that my being gay is a choice i choose to be the person I am yes outside influences such as friends and the lifestyle i was raised in did play a part but i made the final decision

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Permalink Reply by speedracerbd on February 26, 2009 at 11:27am

I always knew that I was attracted to boys when I was young. Although I played the straight deal, because I felt like that was what I was suppose to do. In my small town, homosexuality was not accepted. After I got married and had kids, I realized that I needed to live my life the way I was suppose to. So yes I CHOSE to live my life as a gay man. I did not choose to be gay, I chose to live my life the way it was suppose to be. Plus it is a lot easier to be out and proud than it use to be. We still have a long way to go, but it is better than 10, 20, 30 years ago.

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Permalink Reply by Cecil on February 27, 2009 at 7:44am

True that, this is very confussing. How do you now that you are homosexualy at such aa tender age. There is this child that I know, since he was growing up he was never with any guys, he was always around girls and even developed this tone when he speaks as if he was one of th. I discovered that I am gay when I was in grade 12 and that was the year 2001. It was very difficult for me to come out especially living in South Africa, but eventually I learnt to except myself for who I am an not for what I am. So the concept of HOMOSEXUALITY is such a vass thing, one can never know that you are born that way or changed along the way.

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Permalink Reply by Tienie on March 2, 2009 at 2:08pm

Hi

I hate giving advice: nature intended us to learn from out own F-ups

At 18 I think you should just chill and take life the way it comes, do not put any labels on, having grown up enlightened gave you some extra options in life, trying to understand sexuality is like slamming delicate parts of your anatomy in a car door . . . . painful with lasting effects, date who you please and give yourself a few years to make up your mind. When you turn 25 and start taking life seriously things would have sorted themselves out.

Play safe.

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