Why bottoming is enjoyable for some bi or gay men? Hitting the prostate?

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Permalink Reply by chad on July 27, 2008 at 3:38pm

oh,yeah.when a guy is getting you and he hits the prostate,it will make you jump and scream.if he does it long enough ,you may shoot farther than you ever have! it feels fantastic if the guy knows what he is doing.

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Permalink Reply by Alex Irwin on July 27, 2008 at 6:48pm

Yea, hitting the prostate really does feel good. I'm the bottom in my relationship, cuz my BF is uber top. You might just be one of those guys who, as one my friends puts it when it comes to him bottoming, "doesn't enjoy getting his happy button pressed as much as others do" It just mean't you're top and not a bottom or vers, and it's not a bad thing.

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Permalink Reply by LondonPilot on July 28, 2008 at 11:18am

wow, very interesting. Why didn't they tell us this stuff back in our sex ad classes :-)

Follow up questions: how can the gay top know when he hits the right spot? I got lots of compliments from my partners, but I have no idea whether I was hitting the right spot or not.

Also, I just read the other forum disucssion here on "Is Bigger Better for Gay Men?" Is a bigger tool more likely to hit prostate?

It is great that we can talk about this stuff here. When you ask your own sex partners, most lads are just too polite to tell you that you totally missed it.

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Permalink Reply by NyghtShade on July 28, 2008 at 12:01pm

For me it felt EXTREMELY uncomfortable for me to bottom... Although I really enjoyed it. Simply the first week or so it was uncomfortable... Maybe try it again just relax and make them go slow.

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Permalink Reply by swantip on July 29, 2008 at 1:53am

Have you ever felt the g-Spot? If you're topping dive in their with your fingers and give it a good feel. Once you find it you'll never lose it. I discovered it on a guy after some time spent with dildos - well it was much easier to get in there after them! It's always worth finding it on yourself - you don't need penetration to stimulate it, try massaging (getting someone else to) between the ball sack and the anus - simply wank up through the bottom end of an erect cock and work back towards the anus - I find it then has a knock on affect to the prostate

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Permalink Reply by london85 on July 29, 2008 at 7:59am

hi cuty i personally injoy the pesure n sweet pain that i get from beeing a bottom.

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Permalink Reply by Michael on July 29, 2008 at 9:03am

YES, I call it the anal orgasm and it is the most amazing feeling in the world

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Permalink Reply by Marius on August 21, 2008 at 4:25am

Maybe bottoming is just not for you.
I'm still a virgin (and proud to say so), but can tell you that I would prefer bottom. I think it's more about not being in control than it is about a gay-g-spot.

This is gonna sound gross, but you'll see the point:
Think about when you're taking a crap. When it's big it makes your whole body spasm. That feeling lasts longer than your run of the mill orgasm and alot of guys love it and so do I, which is why I can say I'd prefer bottom. Lol, hope this more biological answer helps you get it:)

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Permalink Reply by Paul in Ohio on September 8, 2008 at 10:59pm

I've never analyzed the feelings. Maybe it's because I'm bi, sex with men is a kind of separation for me. I'll explain. When I'm with a woman, I'm very "take charge". I'm doing to her and I'll make sure she likes it. However, the guys I find most appealing are the one's who treat me as I treat women. They know what they want, they know they'll satisfy me and they take charge over me. Not like in BDSM, but just being, well, manly.

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Permalink Reply by j69c on October 23, 2008 at 12:36am

Hey Tim,

First off, if you've never liked it, chances are that you prefer being a top and will probably continue to be a top without wanting to be versatile. Not to say that if you happen to meet a guy who rocks your world sexually that you want to bottom, you won't be able to...but, most gay and bi men I know have pretty specific preferences to being a top, bottom or versatile.

As for the prostate "g-spot" thing, as a bottom I can say that when a guy hits that particular area for me, I tend to have a full0body orgasm that lasts quite a while. Other times I can cum with touching my dick, and other times I cum and have a full body orgasmat the same time (these times are absolutely, fanfuckintastic!!!). The prostate area is toward the front; from up someone's ass, they are lying on their back and you can usually feel it about 2-3 inches from the sphincter. Size doesn't always mean that your prostate will get rocked whenever you get fucked...BUT if the guy doing you has a big head on his dick, that will most likely hit the spot. Also, a curved penis will also be more likely to hit the prostate than a straight penis. However, a few guys just don't get much feeling from their prostate, so they wouldn't really notice their g-spot getting hit.

As for bottoming, relaxing is the most important thing to remember for us bottom guys. We can actually help our tops hit the prostate by being on top and guiding how their dicks go in. Several positions with the top lying on his back and the bottom riding his dick can have both guys screaming in ecstasy. The thing to note for the prostate is that hitting it isn't as important as rubbing against it is. Constantly hitting the prostate can be painful over time, but a guys dick rubbing against it gives you that constant wave of pleasure that can push you over the edge.

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Permalink Reply by Emkayy on December 6, 2008 at 9:13pm

wow... i got so hot and horny reading this chain. now i cant wait to have sex. It's nice 2 have big brothers like u 2 guide us youngens hehehe...

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Permalink Reply by MarcAshton on December 16, 2008 at 5:26pm

Welcome to the club Brother.. Just be safe and make sure the guy is someone hot or you trust.. Dont want a wrecked spinkecter on your frist shabam xXx

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