hon the problem isn't that there aren't gay guys in high school it's that they aren't out/comfortable with themselves yet..
college will be better for you. it has been for me! ^_^
hehe at least u have other gay guys that u know in your high school, i was the first and only one to come out.. besides until ur self esteem is up to handling the rejection from a hot gay, it is better that all the hot guys are mysteries...be well don't be too much of a slut when u get to college it can be rather distracting.
Permalink Reply by Troy on August 28, 2008 at 11:22am
Steven,
I mean no disrespect, but I think your post showcases a big problem in adolescence...shallowness. Only acknowledging guys you find to be attractive, is arrogant,shortsighted,unfair,selfish and hypocritical to me. I feel like this issue is a double sided sword, I think your a good looking young man but I'm sure I could find someone who would disagree. Don't you want to be noticed,considered and respected ? I'm sure you could find a teenage guy who listens to the same music as you, has the same spiritual beliefs, whom you find trustworthy, that you think is funny, that thinks your gorgeous, but doesn't fit your beauty standard. I encourage you to think outside yourself, try and think more realistically, remember the golden rule, and think with your heart and mind not your hormones. Ask yourself, is it more important to be with someone or to be seen with someone?
Permalink Reply by matt on December 5, 2008 at 6:24pm
well other people with think that there are hot guys in school but the thing is that you have been seeing each other 5 days a week and because of this you get to know the people and become friends. if it help i liked a male teacher of mine lol who was like 2 times older then myself
Permalink Reply by gabe on January 5, 2009 at 2:36am
in high school i can say i had lots of sex but mostly with girls. all the hot stuff only happened on the "boys night" parties and occasionally at house parties but it would usually be at the ones thrown by girls! they seemed to be able to get guys to do things they wouldn't have done with a higher boy/girl ratio! honestly thats why i went even if the chick wasn't particularly popular! many times there was only a couple of guys and instead of trying to get the guys to do stuff with them they would "dare" the guys to do stuff infront of them like making out and striptease, those sort of things and of course i was into it espesialy after i came out!
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